We’ve MOVED!
We are SO thrilled to share with you our new home. Please make sure to bookmark our new site and change it on your reader:
Our new address:
SEE YOU THERE!
Exciting Announcement!
We are MOVING!!!
(to a new url)
On Monday at 12:01am we will have a new home. So get ready!!!
Our new address will be:
See you then and there!
Insider to Insider: Amy Beth Cupp Dragoo, Owner of ABCD Designs Bespoke Stationery, inc.
I’ve been a fan of Amy from ABCD Designs Bespoke Stationery for some time now. I first came to know her wedding stationery from features in Grace Ormonde, Style Me Pretty, and Brooklyn Bride. But, it was through Twitter that I really got to know Amy. She is incredibly candid and very personable. And, then I fell in love with her blog. WOW! Oh – WOW! Her blog is a true work of art. Amy manages to showcase not only her stationery, but also her amazing sense of style. She speaks from her soul about things that truly move her. By doing this she has an incredible way of connecting with her readers. I can only imagine that she has a million fans… oh, and then there’s you. Dear Reader, you’ll SOON be a fan of ABCD Designs too!
Amy Beth Cupp Dragoo
Owner, ABCD Designs Bespoke Stationery
New York, NY (sells worldwide)
www.abcddesign.com
Established 2006

If you were starting your business all over again, what would you have done differently?
I would/should have charged more for custom services from the get-go. The amount of time you spend brainstorming, baby-sitting, editing, revisions and calming the bride down all adds up. The brides -knowing my history in floral design, styling and event planning- often look for my advice on flowers, food and styling the event. Maybe I should have offered this as an ala carte service? At this point and time they get a really, really good deal for my design services and wedding “therapy!”
Thanks Amy!
Sage Declaration No. 2 ::: Practice
Yesterday, I asked you to think about how you are going to educate yourself. Today, I want you to think about Practice. All of those things we learned in our youth (walking, running, biking, swimming, reading, math) were only accomplished with a great deal of practice. Today, we expect “now, now, now”. I want the email now. I want the appointment now. I want the money now. I want my dinner now. But, nothing great is ever learned over night. We must practice – and we must practice A LOT.
I recently read Malcolm Gladwell’s newest book, Outliers. In it, he discusses the “10,000 Hour Rule”. His theory is that no one can achieve greatness without working VERY hard. He believes that you must practice something for at least 10,000 hours to become an expert at it.
He explains how everyone thinks of Bill Gates as this child prodigy / phenom / college-dropout / computer mastermind. But, the reality is that he started his computer programming education as a child. He had the fortuitous opportunity to go to a school in Seattle that had one of the first computers in the country. And, he began programming while in junior high. He was a bit obsessive so he programmed at all hours. By the time he reached college, he had years of experience unmatched by most in the country. Naturally, he had become an expert. Gladwell surmises that Gates had practiced his skill for 10,000+ hours before starting Microsoft.
So, I ask you:
What do you need to practice? How will you build your skill set? How will you commit to practicing? How will you improve and benefit from 10,000+ hours of hard work? What will you do to achieve success?
We cannot become experts in our field or in our business without practice. There are no short-cuts. We cannot build an empire overnight.
Sage Declaration No. 1 ::: Educate Yourself
It seems like we spend most of our youth actively learning. As a child, we learn how to walk, then run. We learn how to ride a bike and swim. We learn how to read and do math. Over time, we’ve learned gazillions of complicated things. Once we graduate from school, if we go to work for a company, we are asked to learn new things from our employer. But, what happens when we are self-employed? Where does that learning come from?
Today’s post is a simple one… think about:
How are you going to continue the learning process? How are you going to build on the knowledge you have to become a stronger business owner? What do you need to learn to be better at what you do?
If you aren’t learning something new, you are becoming stagnant. Make a decision today to read something that educates you. Make a decision to start surrounding yourself with people who encourage your learning process. Make a decision to expand your mind, and learn something new.
What the pros are saying…